Mindset Matters Part 23: Not Qualifying Doesn’t Mean You’re Not Good Enough

In this conversation, Annabelle discusses the importance of language in shaping our mindset and the concept of necessity in life. She emphasises the need to eliminate absolute words like 'have to' and 'must' to foster a sense of freedom and choice. Annabelle argues that the only true necessities in life are basic human needs and socialisation, challenging the notion of obligatory achievements and qualifications.

Chapters:

00:00 - Welcome & Introduction

02:45 - The Emotional Weight of Qualifying Season

06:30 - “What If I Don’t Qualify?” – The Fear Behind the Goal

10:15 - Detaching Results from Self-Worth

14:20 - Why Growth Isn’t Always Linear

18:45 - The Power of Reflection

22:30 - Conversations You Need to Have with Yourself

26:10 - Supporting Dancers Through Disappointment

30:00 - Turning Setbacks into Strength

34:15 - Final Thoughts: What Truly Matters

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🎧 Listen to the How to Handle the Pressure of Qualifying Season

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